What Kid's Shows Do You Wish Would Just Go Away?

I'm getting home from work and there's some kid's shows that Kate absolutely loves. I know I liked some very annoying things as a child, but this got me thinking about which shows I REALLY wish would just go away forever. Here's my top 5 in no specific order:

1. Dora the Explorer (On right now. If only Dora never talked it may be decent. Plus in light of our immigration issues the Spanish is quite annoying also).

2. Diego the male counterpart to Dora (See above on Dora).

3. Barney (Very popular among kid's show bashers, but deservedly so)

4. Wow Wow Wubzy (What is this? Japanese invasion. I just don't understand)

5. Teletubbies (Possibly the most pointless show ever. It teaches nothing, they say nothing, and they are very strange and scary little creatures)

This is my top 5. I could keep going. The shows are just very bad these days. It says something that Mr. Rogers is still on television, and that Sesame Street is still kicking. Some shows have staying power. Others are trendy and faddish. If kids are still watching Dora in 10 years I'll be surprised. I'll also hope I have no little kids! What are your top 5?

Children and the Joy and Pain of Self-Denial

There are few things in this world that teach a person more about self-denial than having children.  I certainly would not say it is the only thing that teaches this.  There are some that are physically unable to have children.  God knows this and will teach you in other ways.  But for those who are able, and have taken the plunge, there is no better way to illustrate what it means to deny yourself on behalf of another.  A baby enters the world physically helpless.  Totally dependent on another, namely the parents.  A man and wife that decide to have children will soon learn that their lives are no longer their own.  Yes a child is an independent person with their own body and soul.  But in the years the child is under your care, they belong to you.  Under God, you've been given stewardship of your children and every parent knows that from pregnancy on, nothing remains the same.  I can glibly say that the joy outweighs the pain of your self-denial.  But like every form of self-denial it's not so automatic.  There are dark days.  Days where you're unsure whether you're fit for the job, certain someone else would do much better than you.  Yet you persevere, another fine lesson of parenthood.  You wake up at any and all hours of the night, and if you desire to care for your child you have no choice but to forsake sleep.  And it is relentless, the fatigue.  You change your patterns of living.  You can no longer go where you want, do what you want, and have no one to answer to except you and your similarly mobile spouse.  But a child throws a wrench into all that.  Now every plan revolves around the baby.  When will she sleep?  When will she eat?  Is it not too cold for us, but too cold for them?  Is packing and taking all the things the baby will need worth the effort just to run to the mall?  Or even church?  Many will say no.  It is not worth the effort.  "I very much like my freedom, and am not ready for a little baby to change all of that."  Others will say it is more than worth it.  The joy of raising a tiny human far outweighs the pain of self-denial.  But which is correct?  I do not wish to say someone waiting to have children is morally deficient or wrong.  But I question the motives.  Is it really for the sake of the child or for the sake of personal freedom?  I believe it leans towards the latter, personal freedom.  Self-denial hurts.  Giving up you freedom hurts.  Yet without self-denial we cannot know what it means to be Christ's disciple.  That is again not to say this can't happen without children.  It is to say children are the most effective way to learn this lesson.  It is a natural byproduct of attempting to be a good steward of parenthood.  No one trying to be a good parent can fail to be taught this lesson.  It "comes with the territory" as they say (who is "they?").  I would encourage a married couple to go the path of most resistance.  Learn the lessons of self-sacrifice.  Take them as you learn them as a parent and transfer that to your relationships with other people.  The lessons work for most any relationship.  If you've read this far and have children, congratulations, I'd like to say keep pushing forward, learn from your mistakes, and be careful to be good stewards of the gifts of children.  If you are married, can have children, yet choose not to, I say examine your motives.  Are they selfish reasons or sacrificial loving reasons?  There is an obvious difference.  You will know if you're honest with yourself.  Now reexamine your reasons, and ask if not having kids is God glorifying now?  If not, then when will it be?  When is the right time?  There will always be a part of your flesh begging not to have kids.  Begging you to fill yourself with yourself.  And so there will always be excuses.  Sometimes they will be good ones.  Sometimes they won't.  Do you wish to deny yourself more than you ever imagined you could?  Then married friends and acquaintances, try for children.  The joy will overcome the pain.  The laughter will overcome the tears most often.  It will never be easy.  Nothing worth doing usually is.  But it is infinitely worthy.  

Understanding the Golden Compass

The new movie, "The Golden Compass" is already the most controversial film among Christians in a very long time. The author of the books the movie is based on (last name Pullman), is an avowed atheist with a blatant agenda to tear down religious belief, or belief in God period. It is a blatant attack wearing the clothing of a children's story. He went to war on faith, and millions of men, women, and children will unknowingly walk into the movie theater and walk out never realizing what they've just seen is an attempt to get generations of people to believe there is no God. I won't go into anymore depth, but I'd encourage you STRONGLY to click on the links to 2 articles about the movie in the right sidebar (They Said it: Things from People Much Smarter than Me). Let me know what you think.

Home from the Hospital

We left the hospital today at about 1 and are settling in with Ava Grace in her new setting. She's handled it like a champ. She's actually handled much like her father, by sleeping for hours at a time. I feel like someone's drugged me with some powerful sleeping potion. Brooke is doing so great I can't believe it. You would never know she went through labor a few days ago. It's absolutely astounding. I guess with Kate being such a difficult delivery I assumed they were all like that. In any case we're excited to get back to life outside the hospital and adjusting to two little girls will be a real change, but a welcome one. Thanks to anyone reading this for your prayers and support. We appreciate each one lifted up to the Lord. We look forward to seeing you all again soon.

Rise and Shine

Tomorrow morning at 5:00 Brooke and I will wake up, take showers, and head to the hospital to meet our new baby. I believe I will have access to the internet from the hospital so I will post some pictures, and post a few blog entries, so check back often to see pictures of the new tied for the cutest girl in the world. If you're in driving distance stop by and see us. We are pumped!

5 Full Days and Counting

Ava Grace Phillips is preparing to make her grand entrance into the world in about 5 days, prayerfully sooner. My perhaps delusional dream is that when we go to the doctor today he'll tell us, "Wow you look ready right now. Let's get you admitted to the hospital." That's not too much to ask since my wife's been having contractions for a week now. My gut says, "You'll just have to wait it out." God's always trying to test my patience. Patience is truly one of the hardest virtues to learn. I usually find myself expressing to God my already well developed sense of it. Like I told the church on Sunday, "Who am I fooling? Sometimes myself, but never God." He knows I need to continue to mature in this area. Who doesn't? Children are the surest way to test your patience level. I'll post soon on Children and Sanctification. This is one of the most practical lessons I've learned in a long time. I hope it will help you when you're fooling yourself about it.